Reeves Benjamin “Ben” Martin, Jr., 53, of Dayton, went to be with the Lord Sunday March 28, 2010 at his home with his family by his side.

Ben was born November 2, 1956 in Lynchburg, VA and was the son of Betty Martin and the late Reeves B. Martin, Sr.  Ben attended Liberty Baptist College in Lynchburg.  He was the Service Manager with Kwick-Lube and Adams Lube Center in Lynchburg for several years and then relocated to the Shenandoah  Valley in 1999.  He went on to work at Harrisonburg Honda as a service manager before his illness required him to retire.  Ben was a charter member of Faith Community Church where he served as a Lay Minister of Pastoral Care.  This ministry developed into a true passion that inspired and encouraged all that met him.  He also worked as a Chaplain for Pilgrim’s Pride in Broadway.  Ben was an avid baseball fan, especially for the Boston Red Sox.  Ben will be remembered as an amazing, loving, unselfish, fun-loving, witty, inspiring husband, father, son and friend.

On September 4, 1982 he married Vicki Clinedinst Martin, his wife of 27 years who survives.  Also surviving are three sons, Matthew Kent Martin, Andrew Ryan Martin and Benjamin Tyler Martin all of Harrisonburg; one daughter, Nikki Rosser and family of Lynchburg; one brother, Donald  Martin and wife, Sherry of Myrtle Beach, SC; one sister, Linda Howard and husband, Leon of Forrest, VA; two nephews, Christian Martin of Myrtle Beach and Lee Howard and family of Winston Salem, NC; one niece, Jennifer Bechtel and family of Madison Heights, VA; beloved Aunt & Uncle, Sue and Darrell Dearing of Madison Heights, VA; and-in-laws, Linda and E.A. Clinedinst; sister-in-law, Carol Clinedinst who loved Ben like a son and brother.

                 A  Memorial  service will be held on Friday April 2, 2010 at 7pm at Memorial Baptist Church in Staunton, VA  with Pastor Keith Hulton officiating.  The family will receive friends from 5:30-7pm at the church. 

Memorial contributions may be made to Faith Community Church, 3546 Redbud Lane, Harrisonburg, VA  22801

On-line condolences may be made to the family at www.kygers.com .

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Sending my love to Vicki and family Dear Vicki, I was deeply saddened to read about Bennie in the paper today. I will certainly keep you and your family in my prayers, asking God to hold you in the palm of His loving hands and guide you through this difficult time. My love to you, Ann Ann Johnson Knight 2010-04-01 07:49:24

Our deepest sympathy Dear Vicki, Matt, Andrew and Ben, We are so deeply saddened for your loss beyond words. We hold so many special memories of your beloved husband and father and know he is smiling in heaven. Love, Machelle, Eddie, Hilary, Eddie III The Rader's 2010-03-31 03:26:09

OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY DEAR VICKI ,MATT,ANDREW AND BEN, WE ARE SO DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF A WONDERFUL HUSBAND FATHER,AND NEPHEW.HE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED BY EVERY ONE THAT LOVED HIM. VERNON&SANDRA MARTIN 2010-03-31 05:19:20

MY SYMPATHY Vicki, I am so sorry to hear of th loss of your husband. Although I did not know him the obituary sounds like he was a wonderful person. I will be praying for you & your family. Love, Kim Millner RHS Kim Millner 2010-03-31 05:20:39

Adams Motor Co. Vicki, So sorry to hear of Ben's death. I know that he has not been well for along time but nothing prepares you fully for this day. Hope you and the boys know that Ben was a friend to everyone and would do anything in the world for you. I valued him as a one of my Adams Motor Company Family of Friends. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers and if I can do anything for you in Lynchburg just let me know. Carter Martin Carter Martin 2010-03-31 06:17:03

Thinking of you Dear Vicki, Matt, Andrew and Ben, I was distressed to read of Ben's passing in yesterday's paper. Although Ben was a member of the Adams Motor Company family for just a brief time, he made a big impact on all of us who worked with him or who were served by him in performance of his daily tasks. He was kind, dependable, and a friend to us all. We wished that he had been able to stay with us but we knew that the move to Harrisonburg was best for the family. All of us are better for having known and worked with Ben. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Julian Julian Adams 2010-03-31 06:17:07

We are so sorry to read of Ben's death. He was a wonderful friend to us when we moved to Lynchburg and are thinking of you and the boys. Mike & Pam McPeake & Family Lynchburg, Va. Vicki & Family 2010-03-31 06:42:45

We were so sorry to learn of Ben's passing. He was a kind and gentle man and will be missed. Our sympathies are with all of you at this difficult time. The Boyd Dove family 2010-03-31 08:26:19

We were sad to hear of Ben's passing. This world seems an emptier place without him in it. What a blessing Ben was to all that knew him and he touched so many lives. We each have cards that were sent by him as an encouragment and we have kept them. He was a wonderful man with an engaging personality and smile. We feel privileged to have known him. He is at home and we have the promise of spending eternity together. If there is anything we can do, please let us know. You all are in our prayers. Sheri Henry & family 2010-03-31 09:22:12

Dear Vicki and sons: I was very sad to hear of Ben's passing; but rejoicing to know that he is with the Healer and totally whole. He is dancing on the streets of gold and and talking with the disciples. During the short time we attended Faith Community, Ben always had a smile on his face and encouraged me! I will always remember him. You are in our prayers, Vicki and boys. Miki Jackson Miki Jackson 2010-03-31 10:14:27

Prayers Are With You I was saddened to hear of Benny's passing. Although I only knew him a brief time, he had people skills that were a true gift. Our prayers are with you and your family and may you find peace. If there is anything we can do, please let us know. I am a nurse who once worked at LGH. Betty ( Ashworth), David, Nath 2010-03-31 10:42:28

Dear Vicki, Matt, Andrew, and Tyler, Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you during this difficult time. Ben was such a wonderful, kind man and a great testimony to the power and grace of God. I will never forget Ben's smile - he was such an encourager and a caring person. Will pray for you now and in the days ahead. Love, Hila Anonymous 2010-03-31 11:17:40

Do not notify Please do not notify. Thank you. Ann Knight 2010-03-31 14:59:23

Dear Vicki, Matt, Andrew and Tyler, So sorry to hear of Ben's passing. I know he has been a trooper for years, and never did we hear him complain. What a blessing he always was to those around him. He will be sadly missed by many. May your days ahead be made easier, knowing he is home with his Lord. Prayers for you all, Tonia and Todd Todd and Tonia Simmons 2010-03-31 16:27:07

Thoughts and prayers are with you for God's healing grace to be on your family at this time. Sandy Lane 2010-03-31 17:46:22

Dear Vicki & Family I'm truly sorry to hear of Ben's passing. He was a very good man. You, Ben and the boys were very good neighbors and I really missed that. Take care. Sandra Rice 2010-03-31 17:53:17

Vicki and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Heaven is brighter today; we have lost a soldier for Christ. God bless in the coming days with special memories for each of you. Love in Christ, Randall & Christinia Randall & Christinia Wilson 2010-03-31 18:03:57

With our sympathy and love To Vicki and family - Our thoughts are with you. We are just at a loss of words to pass along to you. Time goes by too quickly. Ben was a true friend to us. He truly lived his life to the fullest with his sense of humor and his love for life. We will miss him too. With our love - Henry and Chris Henry Vess III and Christine W 2010-03-31 20:01:50

Dear Vicki, I remember you as a child and how I used to babysit with you and Carol. You have my deepest sympathies at this sad time in your life. May God continue to strengthen you and your loved ones. Patrice King Thames 2010-04-01 06:31:32

With fond memories Dear Vicki, Matt, Andrew, and Tyler, My thoughts have been with you so much lately. I am sorry that Benny had to leave this earth so soon. He loved his family so much and did all he could to stay with you. I will always remember his smile and sense of humor. He will never truly leave you and one day you will be together again. Hold on to your memories and know how much you all meant to him. Pam Paulette Morris Pam Morris 2010-04-01 08:24:08

Dear Vicki, I have just learned of Benny's passing! My heart goes out to you and yours! I have so many fond memories of Benny from a happier time! Just want you to know I am thinking of you! Love, Ralph Ralph Fox II 2010-04-01 09:11:21

you have our deepest sympathy Dear Vicki and boys, We are so sorry to hear about Ben's passing. He was a wonderful man and clearly very devoted to you. At the same time, he is no longer suffering and you know you will see him again. God hold you in His hands through this difficult time. Johnny and Debbie Dove 2010-04-01 19:31:06

Condolences Vicki and Family, I am saddened to learn about Ben's passing. I hope that you and your children find peace in the comfort and love of God and friends at this time. Wade & Lisa Wright Wade Wright 2010-04-02 14:57:32

Friend Character problem. empty comment Vicki,and sons,I met your husb 2010-04-02 19:02:11

Friend Vicki and family, Thank you for sharing your husband and father with us at Pilgrims, I met Ben and few years back as a chaplin,he helped me pray for one of my granddaughters that was having a problem at the time,as soon as Ben and I were finished I knew things were going to be okay,they were. We talked of you and of the boys, found out Matt was a friend of my future grandson.I was truly sorry to hear of your loss.He will be greatly missed, not only by you all but us too.Peace be with you. Linda Benishek 2010-04-02 19:13:13

RMH Emergency Dept. Dear Vicky, Andy, and family. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you. Sincerely, Elaine Elaine Tomlinson 2010-04-03 11:42:45

Vicki and family Ben was a dear friend of mine.I really liked working for Ben.He was a graet boss and person.Iwill truly miss talking to him. My thougth and prayers are with our. The Adie family 2010-04-16 18:55:28

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